Control! The word I have used the moment I gained my sense and has seen everyone use it. What is 'Control'? Why do we use it often? What significance it has on us, on others, on the universe? Control is getting something to your will and hold. Unlocking your phone-a control you have, flushing the toilet-a control you have, reading these words-a control you have. It basically signifies your actions are conscientious.
But now the question that arises, 'What in the world do I control really?'. Have you ever gave a thought that you control nothing. Yes, NOTHING we can control. It is the illusion that we are in control, in authority. There comes a time when we say, 'If it was under my control, I would have...'. But isn't it crazy that you don't have control even if you think it is.
I would like to share a recent incident, few days back I met with an accident. Luckily I got bruises and recovered at the moment. my motor bike got skid and I lost control. The moment my bike started skidding my brain immediately sent nerve signals that I am skidding and I need to control my bike. but lost was the time and opportunity. And I let the ground get my touch...hehe:-D. I woke up from the accident and thought for a moment that 'if I had contr...wait what am thinking...it was never under my control....what happened has happened and was about to occur...see i got only bruises, anything bad could have happened'. With this my day went good and smooth.
As per statistics we have 99% percent people always thinking of some ad hoc and feeling 'if I had control'. But 99.9% of the times it was never under our control. An NGO statistics say that out of 100 89 people have realized the same at the moment they were allowed to think of anything happening and felt good after the event had happened.(We went for breaking of a cup, don't try at home :-P).
The more we come to know that we are the performers the more we realize control is illusion and more at peace we are.
But the change is not a 2-minute noodle procedure. It takes time and we all know 'The more the wait, the better the fruit, if you wait smartly.'
Think Crazy...Think Daily...
Life is short...Live it long............................................................................................continued............
But now the question that arises, 'What in the world do I control really?'. Have you ever gave a thought that you control nothing. Yes, NOTHING we can control. It is the illusion that we are in control, in authority. There comes a time when we say, 'If it was under my control, I would have...'. But isn't it crazy that you don't have control even if you think it is.
I would like to share a recent incident, few days back I met with an accident. Luckily I got bruises and recovered at the moment. my motor bike got skid and I lost control. The moment my bike started skidding my brain immediately sent nerve signals that I am skidding and I need to control my bike. but lost was the time and opportunity. And I let the ground get my touch...hehe:-D. I woke up from the accident and thought for a moment that 'if I had contr...wait what am thinking...it was never under my control....what happened has happened and was about to occur...see i got only bruises, anything bad could have happened'. With this my day went good and smooth.
As per statistics we have 99% percent people always thinking of some ad hoc and feeling 'if I had control'. But 99.9% of the times it was never under our control. An NGO statistics say that out of 100 89 people have realized the same at the moment they were allowed to think of anything happening and felt good after the event had happened.(We went for breaking of a cup, don't try at home :-P).
The more we come to know that we are the performers the more we realize control is illusion and more at peace we are.
But the change is not a 2-minute noodle procedure. It takes time and we all know 'The more the wait, the better the fruit, if you wait smartly.'
Think Crazy...Think Daily...
Life is short...Live it long............................................................................................continued............
