Friday, 4 November 2016

Embarrassment: A Prodigy

Oh you stupid...you dumb...even a kindergartner can do this...and you!!! How can you be so stupid to do this, so irresponsible....*facepalm* moment. Are you feeling embarrassed?
Most of us must have went trough a *facepalm*(embarrassed) moment where we felt like we should be invisible, felt low. But what is embarrassment? Do we really know the meaning of embarrassment? Am not talking about the dictionary meaning or the one told to you by others, but the meaning realized by you! Yes you! That is what the following series of words are going to...Embarrassment.
We all try to find meaning of life in dictionary(offline and online) and end up becoming what others intended. Dictionaries tell us the meaning of life in the user's perspective.
I am an element of the power set of people who went though the dictionary meaning of embarrassed. There were moments when I felt i should be invisible or go away. I wished nobody knew me. But did it help...did feeling embarrassed help me? No...definitely no. It only made me angry and unstable. I became crusty and spoiled my energetic and bloomed mood. One evening while lighting and incense accidentally the burnt part fell on my hand and burned the skin. The immediate reaction of my family was "Oh God!!! what happened?" When I described the scene, they asked, "How silly you are. At the age of 20+ you can't even light an incense?" That moment I really felt embarrassed...yes embarrassed. I sat there for a moment and calmed my mind. I realized what silly is there? I had done a great job. I discovered an new thing: How not to hold an incense stick. Everyone ca tell you how to hold and incense stick, which is the perfect way but no one can tell you to do mistakes. Mistakes make you learn new things, explore the dark side, walk the new path, make new path.
Soon I calmed my mind and realized this I was joyful. I became normal and stopped concentrating on the burnt portion. Obviously I applied medicine over it. The moment I diverted my mind from the burnt area I felt lively and enjoyed with every element of world.
Embarrassment is a low feeling that you develop because you make yourself feel low. You start to think what others are thinking. And we all know, we all are not Mentalist. So stop doing that. Find a way to make yourself feel high even if the odd are on your table, turn the tables. That is what life wants from us. We face adversities because life wants us to learn new ways to face it and turn the tables rather that having a *facepalm* moment.

Think Crazy...Think Daily...
 Life is short...Live it Long..............................................................................................continued...


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